Ezer

Meet people your church already knows.

Ezer is a matchmaking app for Christians in India who are seeking marriage. Every member is vouched for by their own pastor.

The pastor reference

One private question, sent to the pastor you name.

When your profile is ready, you tell us who your pastor is. We email them a link that works once and lasts 14 days. They tell us whether they know you and can vouch for you, and that is all we ask.

Their answer is never shown on your profile. It is used only to verify you.

No reply yet? You can send up to three reminders, at least 48 hours apart. After that, we stop emailing them.

The reference request email: Grace Thomas at Bethel Assembly, Chennai has listed you as their pastor on Ezer, with a Review the request button.
The email a pastor receives. Names are examples.

From sign-up to your first conversation

Four steps. The third one is what makes Ezer different.

  1. Sign in with a code

    Enter your email address and we send you a six-digit code. There is no password to remember, reuse or leak.

  2. Tell people who you are

    Your faith and your church, your family and your work, what you hope for in marriage, and a few photos. You decide what goes on your profile, and you can change it any time.

  3. Ask your pastor to vouch for you

    Name the pastor who knows you. You can look around while you wait, but you will see only the first photo on each profile, and people see only your first initial.

  4. Connect, then talk

    Send a request to someone you would like to know. If they accept, you can message each other. If they pass, you are not told, so nobody gets a rejection notice.

What changes when your pastor says yes

The rules depend on whether you are verified, not on who you are looking at.

While you wait

  • First photo only. Every other photo on a profile is blurred for you.
  • A short profile. You see the outline of each person, not the detail.
  • Requests, not conversations. You can send requests, but you cannot accept one or send messages yet.

Once you are verified

  • Every photo, every detail. Full profiles, and your own name shown in full.
  • Accept requests. Say yes to the people who reached out to you.
  • Message your connections. Talk with anyone you have connected with.

Privacy and safety

Built to be trusted with something this personal

No advertising, and your data is never sold.

Ezer exists to help you find a spouse. Your faith, your photos and your history are used for that and nothing else.

Photos stay blurred

Until someone is verified, they see only your first photo.

Report or block anyone

Once you block someone, you stop appearing to each other and they cannot message you.

Leave whenever you like

Delete your account in the app or on the web. Your profile and photos go straight away, and the account is erased after 30 days.

The pastor invitation email: an Ezer admin has invited you to be the verifying pastor for Bethel Assembly, Chennai, with an Accept your invitation button.
A pastor's invitation to verify their church. Names are examples.

For pastors

You already know your people. That is all we ask of you.

When a member of your congregation names you, you get one email with a private link. Answering takes a minute and needs no account.

  • Pastors who verify their church get a dashboard of every request that names them, in one place.
  • Pastor accounts are by invitation. Our team reviews the church details before a dashboard opens.
  • You see a member's name and the status of their request. Never their messages or who they talk to.

Questions before you join?

Whether you are thinking of joining, a pastor who has been named, or a parent helping a son or daughter, write to us.

Email us